Think about a mirror for a moment: A mirror does not judge, it does not say whether something is ‘good’ or ‘bad’, ‘right’ or ‘wrong’. A mirror just reflects back whatever is put in front of it.
The results you produce with your life is like a mirror reflection on WHO you are and WHERE you are. When the result you are producing is nothing to brag about, that's just the mirror reflecting back to you where you IS. Getting upset because your life is messed up in any area is wasting your precious time. The mirror is there to give you a wake-up call. It is saying "Hey, you're broke. Are you willing to do something about it?"
WHERE you are and WHO you are in life right now is the accumulative sedimentation of your past intentions, thoughts, feelings and actions. That means your current level of results is nothing more than the residual outcome of your aggregated thoughts, feelings and actions. Your results have nothing to do with what you are capable of doing or who you are capable of becoming.
If you look at your body, your bank account, your house, your car, your relationships, your job or lack thereof, you can tell what you have been up to for the past five years or so. What you have been thinking, feeling and acting upon is reflected in your current results. Your results are nothing more than a feedback mechanism-a mirror of what you have been thinking, feeling and acting.
You will continue to produce the exact results over and over again in your life if you choose to remain the same person that has produced those results. The good news is that you can change your future by changing your thoughts, feelings and actions. Here is some help on how to change your results: https://www.mskigwa.com/shop/product/command-your-future.html