Do you find yourself having more ‘month’ at the end of your money? Whom would you become if that ‘story’ ceased to be part of your life again? Most of all money problems that people have, actually tend to be a ‘thinking problem'. If you really want…
75% of the Kenyan society comprises of people below the age of 35 years. Unfortunately about 65% of those are unemployed. This problem is compounded further by the fact that every year, approximately 500,000 Kenyan youth join the labour market. Ther…
You should never attempt to compare yourself with others except for the purposes of bench marking and learning from what they have accomplished based on their knowledge and skill level. Regardless of your current status in life, occupation or level of achievement; learn to accept yourself and be glad to be you. Never depend on other people’s opinion of you to feel worth. Make a ‘thank you’ list of things, milestones and achievements that you are proud of.
Some years back, I had an interesting conversation with a man who had come to me seeking counsel concerning his ailing marriage relationship with his wife of more than fifteen years. He complained that over the years, his wife, once a joyous and a highly spirited girl had changed into a dull, apathetic woman who only performed her duties like a robot. He narrated how he felt frustrated and distant from his wife because she had not kept pace with him. According to him, she had become narrow instead of growing broader and keener as the years past.
To cut the long story short, when I later met him together with his wife, I discovered that this man was squarely to blame but it never occurred to him that he was at fault. Over the years, he had been indifferent and hostile towards the hopes and ambitions his wife’s had before they got married. He discouraged her from growing to the full stature of her womanhood. The bitterness of her disappointment crushed her spirit and she lost her buoyancy and enthusiasm in life.
If as a husband you have been trying to cramp your wife’s natural expression of her ambition, or sneers at, nags and criticizes her for seeking to bring out the sacred thing which the Creator has given her, then you deserve all the unhappiness that is likely to come to your home.
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The worst kind of poverty is poverty of thought. Regardless of how much you may long for prosperity, a miserable, poverty-stricken mental attitude will close all the avenues to it. If you can conquer the inward poverty in mental attitudes, you will…
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